These conversations are an opportunity to gain an understanding of why people do what they do. Every action is driven by a thought – so to change behaviour we need to understand what it is that drives and motivates people. We can gain an understanding of that structure by mapping out values and meta programs.
Meta Programs are perceptual filters that generally operate out of conscious awareness. They filter perception and determine your preferences in how you think, feel and act. For example, making a decision based upon feelings versus facts and logic is a meta program.
Values work in a similar fashion to meta programs in that they create a frame, a focus, a perceptual filter. Values determine every decision that you make but how you go about making the decision will be based upon your meta programs.
By learning how to recognise values and meta programs we can begin to understand why people do what they do. In doing so we can begin the process of mapping out the structure of peace and reconciliation throughout the world.
In this podcast we discuss how values and meta programs influence every decision that you make.
– How values and meta programs influence behaviour
– Values within the context of Malsows hierarchy
– To learn how to elicit values see my earlier videos
– Self actualisation – stepping up to the next best version of yourself
– What would you do if you won a lottery? Towards and Away-From values
– What values would drive you towards the highest version of yourself?
– Every few months spend a couple of hours eliciting your values
– Take every opportunity to elicit values but check your assumptions
– See the links below for personality type tests
– Values determine every decision that you make
– Elicit a procrastination strategy – in terms of values, meta programs and conditions
– Explore the concept of negative and positive compelling futures – consequencs and benefits
– The centre is in the middle of two extremes – find the balance and power ahead
– NLP Coaching gives you a way to move from the back seat into the drivers seat of your life
Send me an email from my website if you are interested in a free 20 minute Skype or Zoom session.
ABOUT THE GUEST
Seth Blankenship, M.S. Psychology
Certified Coach in NLP & Neuro-semantics
Helping people achieve what’s most important to them with 1-1 virtual coaching.
Phone 321414-3473
Viera, Florida
CHECK THESE LINKS
1. How to elicit values
https://www.abbyeagle.com/nlp-coaching-resources/values.php
2. At the top of this page there are links to:
https://www.abbyeagle.com/nlp/what-is-my-personality-type.php
– Personality Hacker version of the Myers Briggs Personality Test
– The Wealth Dynamics profile
– NLP Meta Programs
3. Discover the next best version of yourself in the NLP Future Selfing online course
https://www.abbyeagle.com/courses-online/about-nlp-future-selfing.php
4. Learn how to challenge everything for the truth in the NLP Peace Mapping online course
https://www.abbyeagle.com/courses-online/about-nlp-peace-mapping.php
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Abby Eagle NLP Coaching, Hypnotherapy and Meditation
Gold Coast, Australia